LUST LIST 2023: Malakai White
They/Them • Gay/Queer
What neighborhood do you live in?
I currently live in Midtown
How long have you lived in Atlanta?
I’ve lived in atlanta for 1.5 years now
How long are you planning to live in Atlanta? (Choices) Never Moving, ATL is temporary, or Determined to move at some point
ATL is temporary
Where are you from originally?
I’m originally from a small college town in Michigan called Kalamazoo.
What do you do to pay the bills (occupation)?
I’m a desk concierge by day and a sexy model by night. Ahaha my main source of income is sex work, Onlyfans, Studio Scenes, underwear shoots.
What are your passions in life?
Some of my passions are Fashion, Gaming, Design, Music, anything creative really. I just like being able to create.
What are your hobbies?
A few of my hobbies are gaming, sewing, napping, binging YouTube haha
Who is your celebrity crush?
Okay ummm it’s been Tom Holland for the last 3 years so I’ll say him! But it changes weekly, there’s so many hotties out there.
What is your ideal first date?
Ummmm, i’d say my ideal first date would be doing something that’s engaging, possibly new for both of us, and allows us to talk and bond over things.
What is your favorite quality about yourself?
Oh gosh, probably my charm. I just really like to be liked and I smile at everyone. I’m not super extroverted but I make friends easily. When I was a kid, my friends and i would hang out at the park and I would always say hi to everyone we passed and now as an adult I just compliment everyone when I honestly feel it. Think something positive, say something positive
What is the most important quality in a partner, in your opinion?
Okay… ermmm.. Probably an equal balance of understanding and devotion. Understanding because life is unpredictable and being able to understand, adapt, and move with the punches is important. Especially in a partnership, which brings in devotion and actively choosing to be there for each other.
What is your favorite thing to do in Atlanta?
I love going out to the drag shows and queer parties. It’s nice being surrounded by queer alternative people.
Which do you prefer? (Choices)Going out. I'm a social butterfly; Staying in. The Joy of Missing Out (JOMO) is my life.; or Depends on my mood.
Depends on my mood.
Spirituality (Choices) Religion; Astrology; Both; None; Other
There’s something but who knows what?
How do you prefer to flirt? (Choices) Call; Text; Email; DM; In Person; Other
Okay I like to text a lot to get comfortable but I’m way better in person dater
What are your guilty pleasures?
Lol I mean I guess watching Sims 4 porn! There’s this creator (Hyungry2 on twitter), they changed my life haha.
What are your favorite bars and restaurants in ATL?
Star Bar! It’s a small bar in Little 5 Points and the catalyst for the friendships and memories I’ve made. There’s this monthly drag show called Alt3r that my friends host and it’s themed! I love creating my own looks and going to see the performances. It’s a safe space. my favorite restaurant is harder to say, I think I could benefit from a couple more dates before I decide ha.
What's your least favorite food?
American cuisine. It’s all boring to me. I’m talkin’ burgers, hotdogs, etc.
What's your favorite food?
Anything Hispanic. Escargot is an honorable mention.
Which is more your speed? (Choices) Run a family 5K on Thanksgiving morning; Make 5 mimosas for friends and fam on Thanksgiving morning; All of the above
Make 5 mimosas for friends and fam on Thanksgiving morning
What 3 things would you want on a deserted island?
1: Polaroid Camera (endless supply of film included)
2: the castle from beauty and the beast
3: a pizza
Exercise is... (Choices) Extremely important and takes priority over my schedule; Important, working out at least 3-5 days a week; I get my steps, but I'm not hitting the gym; What is exercise?
Important, working out at least 3-5 days a week
How do you prefer to travel? (Choices) Road trip; Fly
Where is your dream vacation destination?
Okay easily Paris! I’ve wanted to ever since freshman year when i started French classes.
What are your top 3 Bucket List items?
Bucket list items!? So things i literally need before I die? Shit, im not really a materialistic.
How do you meet people in Atlanta? (Choices) At a bar; At work; Dating Apps; Social Media; Other
At a bar, At work, Social Media
My ideal person...
Creative, self driven, passionate and loyal. Optimistic but realistic. Goal setter and getter. A thrill for adventure and travel.
now physically… erm taller (I’m 5’6), strong arms, body hair. Someone that makes me feel small and safe 🙈🥺
Tattoos and piercings. A midwestern garage band typa guy.
What is one thing you've always wanted to do, but probably won't?
Go to space haha.
Sports... (Choices) Hell yeah!; Hell no!; Indifferent